Abigail can get a little worked up over things, easily overwhelmed and likes things to be perfect, so I always take these opportunities to say stuff like “okay, how can we make it better the next time, what can we do differently, let’s make a plan”… it was also my first time making jam too so I can see now that having the thermometer and not relying on our eyes, especially when we don’t quite know what we’re looking for, would be A Good Thing!